today is a day i will never forget for many reasons

one of the many reasons is that my baby sister sierra was born today at 104 pm. the other is that it hit really hard that i have been waiting to have a baby for 5 years. this is a happy and sad day all at the same time. this is not something that i am proud of by any means and i am truly happy for my mom and step dad. and congrats to them. i just keep asking what did i do so wrong that i am not able to have a baby. is there even a way that i will be able to have a baby? all of these questions and more go through my head every day. i do not think that people should live their live asking themselves these questions. so that is why i wonder about them so often because i know that i have not done anything to not be able to have a baby. but one still has to wonder. i guess it would be helpful to be able to talk to some one that has went through this and knows how i feel but now i dont so i guess i have to write it down to kepp from having it all bottle up inside and then blow up one day at my husband that does not deserve it. my husband is a great man and wants me to talk to him about it but he does not understand the pain and everything that is involved with not being able to feel like a woman and have the body work the way it is supossed to. and because we are not made of money there is not even a way that i can feel like a woman is supossed to feel. i thank god for my family and everyone that he has brought into my life. and i pray that he keeps everyone of you safe and away from harm.

the start to a long juroney still in progress

my husband and i got married on July 20, 2004. i was 16 and he was 18 yes this is young but we knew through God that we were meant to be together for the rest of our lives. shortly after my 17th birthday we started to ttc (try to conceive). this did not happen although we tried and tried. i also still had insurance. we tried for a year and then i decided to go to the doctor and see what the problem was. the first time i went to the doctor the doctor and i talked the doctor then took blood and i went home no news yet. i then went back and got the results of the blood work and was told that everything was fine. also at his appointment i told the doctor that i had not had a period scene November of 2004. then the doctor set up an ultrasound to see what was going on nothing looked abnormal i was told. so we just let it be at that for another month i then went back to the doctor and i was told that even though i did not have any cysts on my ovaries that i had pcos (poly cystic ovarian syndrome). i was confused...... how can this be will i ever be able to have a child???? i asked the doctor and was told that it is possible but that i had to be on medication. he then put me on metformin. i was unsure why because i knew from my mother in law that this is a diabetic medication after the doctor told me that the blood work all looked fine. but i knew that the doctor had a reason. so i took metformin for a month and then went back to see if everything was ok. i was told that everything was fine. the doctor then prescribed me a drug that was supposed to make me have a period and still nothing so the doctor tried a higher dose. still nothing so we tried something different. this gave me a period and then the next month back at the doctor and he then said take the period drug and then 7 days after take clomid. nothing to my knowledge happened. :( so then the doctor had my husband do a seaman analysis. everything is normal they said..... i got to take one round of clomid do to loss in insurance covering this drug..... so then this had been 2 years and i was dropped from my insurance. so there was no going to see the doctor or any medication for me. scene then i have not been able to go to the doctor or anything. my husband and i keep looking to god and praying that our miracle will happen soon it is just hard to keep everything together especially when everyone around us is pregnant. including friends and my mother. this is very hard. but i know that through the grace of God our miracle will happen soon i have to or i will not be able to keep my eyes on god and the promises that he has made through the bible.